First of all, the best way to control anyone is to please. Surprised? Really, it is the easiest and the most joyful way to control.
Secondly, men like to be controlled – that is why they marry.They want someone to control them sweetly and gently, someone to keep an eye on their lives and mood, someone to support them affectionately…
A wise woman can easily control her dear husband by following simple methods:
1. Cook good food – and NEVER talk to your man before he has eaten! I mean at least do not try to discuss something important.
2. Take care of his looks – mostly men have a poor taste and are very happy if someone takes care of their wardrobe.
3. And… my favourite one is – give your husband a good head massage (daily if possible) in Indian style, with coconut oil. Why? Today we are all very busy with mental over- activity, men probably still more intensely than women. A good head massage removes the tension in head which every man person has after work. Normally one can massage 5-10 min, however my husband says “it can go like this forever” :) You might enjoy the looks of your husband reminding this cat:
image by CeciliaC
A good head massage both relaxes and stimulates, one feels fresh and light – and becomes very comfortable for a loving communication.
Ah, yes – dont forget to make it look like HE is the boss
There are surely 1000 and one other great tricks, like the ones my dear friend Radha described here - whatever you choose it is only your LOVE that controls. For one can not resist the true love.