I wonder what kind of women are you talking about? If we concider not young girls but wonen in theri 40s onwards, I can see what you mean.

But with young girls it is definetely not true, very have really softer features than, let’s say Dutch…at least that is what I heard so often.

February 20, 2009 @ 10:48 am

What malarky! I Love a beautiful short swngy bob cut & detest women with long hair 98% of the time! Most WOMEN like long hair or are at least AFRAID to cut it properly into a smart & fashionable style! Long hair IF ULTRA thick and so perfectly healthy you can see your reflection in the shine… looks beautiful. What I see is WAY to many women afraid to cu their thin scraggely coarse dull unhealthy hair at any cost… “just a trim don’t take off more than ¼ inch!” Nevermind the split ends alone require 6″! Sucessful Men prefer a short polished chic short bob. Abusive low-class unemployed hippie biker-types like long hair. Yes they are more vocal and complain more often when women speak of cutting, but… look at wives of sucessful men. how do most wear their hair? no longer than an inch past the tops of the shoulders to a short crop.

Julie:

I have to admit I have come across this in the past two years!!!

I now have someone very respectable who is very loving and more successful than anyone I had previously attracted.

I noticed I didn’t attract the rough, agressive men anymore. Which I was over the moon about.

I cut my hair because previously I had my hair long because my ex partner (abusive) had preffered long hair not because I liked it myself, or suited my personality.

Im a Ballet dancer, Im very feminine, I don’t work a conventional job and so the economic meltdown didn’t effect me at all.

I did cut my hair because I had always secretly thought shorter hair on women was just so vibrant!!! I didn’t have a clue how to cut my own hair into an above the shoulder cut and so I left it in the hands of my hairdresser and haven’t looked back.

In dresses & in dancing I look a million times more elegant, I don’t have hair weighing me down & hiding my gown or dance moves.

Ive attracted new friends who are warmer than my previous ones, lectureres at University give me more respect too.

I really do know that long hair looks nice on some women.

However myself and many other women can also look just stunning with shorter hair and in fact it’s also many women’s moment in life where they can finally shine and the entire world can see your beautiful face & body clearly.

We should all do what we like and please excuse my overly passionate response & long lines it’s rather late and I felt this beautiful thread of yours deserved both sides of a very debated topic.

Warmest regards, love to all!

I remembered that,

Feminine energy is passive, Goddess energy is internal, – Silver being feminine is introverted & withdrawing properties, taking, darkness is also representative of the creative feminine energy, as is the color black, cold, reflective but overall passive & mute.

Masculine energy is like Gold attributes, giving, Extraverted, engaging, outgoing, positive light energy etc.. just .. shining & also powerful heat, warmth which is fine too.

So in retrospect you would imagine that becoming more “Feminine” equates to withdrawing, becoming more passive and hence this is also the attributes longer hair gives off completely unconsciously. If that’s ok with you then it’s ok with me too! Please go about growing your hair long to impress men but don’t ever be mistaken that it’s giving you any sort of respect or attractiveness in that way you actually believe it to be so. Your submitting to men, not “attracting” them by your own “attractive” powers of a shining light, your laying yourself down in submission giving a clear signal of defeat.

Whether you realize it or not and perhaps that is the “traditional” role of women however I argue that it isn’t because if you study history anciently women have had many roles that are equal with men in ancient pagan societies of warier women & the knowledgeable women of past pagan religion in Europe. Cleopatra & the Amazonian women.

Men with long hair aren’t respected at all, not by men or women.

So it would only be logical to conclude that all long hair isn’t very “respectable” however a husband wants a sexy sex object and not a respectable equal spouse.

Hair is a choice, a signal of your personality and it doesn’t have anything to do with shakti.

I had to note that I noticed recently that I had respected & formed an emotional respect or idea of personality to many famous women with short hair.

However when it comes to long haired actresses it just didn’t have the same impact of emotional connection to their names, whereas when you think of Meg Ryan you think great person:

Long hair actress that I don’t have emotional association when I read their names:

Darryl Hannah, Meryl Streep, Catherine Zeta Jones, Penelope Cruz, Nicole Kidman, Kate Hudson, Aishwarya Rai, Rachel Weisz, in fact Im having a very hard time remembering actresses with long hair… oh, .. Rose Mcgowen, Sophie Marceau, Heather Graham, Gwenneth Paltrow, etc.

Maybe it’s just me, and that’s just fine too!

But I’ve always associated the shorter hair actresses as more interesting & obviously more famous.

I didn’t have anything “special” happen when I had long hair except being stalked, abused by partners who were crazy jealous over men starring at me all the time. (The grabbing the hair part is true, men do grab your hair if they are a crazy jealous type).

I always had sick perverts following me around when I had long hair. (Believe me not an understatement.)

Now I have the “Bob” haircut and everything is roses the last two years!

With the “Bob” chin length bob haircut Ive been treated with respect by so many people in situations I before were treated like a brainless tart or something to stare at. In going to the bank, University lecturers, dates, the cinema etc.
I’m now treated like an actual person rather than a sex object.

It’s really wonderful having short hair because people respect your boundaries more and I’m still being found very attractive as I still have stalkers.. (I have no idea how to get rid of perverts & prowlers but they are just men I didn’t want to get to know, Im not fussy I’m just not interested in getting to know anyone outside my actual hobbies or family life.)

I hated having long hair because it seemed it attracted anyone, everyone and didn’t project any clear personality of my own.

I do realize husbands like the soft look of long hair however there are just so many beautiful women with the shorter hair:

Meg Ryan, Charlize Theron, Katie Holmes, Ashley Judd, Cameron Diaz, Sophia Loren, Elizabeth Taylor, Marilyn Monroe, Halle Berry, Winona Ryder, Natalie Portman, Salma Hayek (had short), Drew Barrymore, Kiera Knightly, Vanessa Williams, Tyra Banks, Brittany Murphy and believe me I could go on and on!!!

With short hair I have been more confident than ever before I feel sexier than I ever did in my entire life, I don’t feel like a zombie copycat.. I feel alive and I can actually see my body in clothes now its fabulous because you can actually see your figure.

I have less creepy men following me home from the grocery store and for that Im very happy.

It certainly hasn’t stopped men asking me out and going gaga over me.

Short hair also makes you appear taller and you get noticed more often.

Believe it or not men actually love long hair because it makes you more invisible, submissive looking & tame.

If you want to be wild free independant and sexy grow cut your hair shorter than shoulder length.

Long long hair in Asia was actually a punishment from Ghengis Khans Armies BTW!!!

Study up on your history, Asians didn’t wear long hair forever it was a punishment in China so Ghengis Khan could make sure he can make the Chinese submit. !!! PREVIOUSLY in history everyone CUT THERE HAIR.

To top it off, I wasnt going to comment at all on this topic just thought I would share that Short hair CAN BE SEXY POWERFUL and.. just so beautiful. Ive always seen long hair as repressive & overly submissive and I didnt at all like being dragged by mine when my ex husband bashed me.

People respect you more when you have short hair and short hair is just as alluring as long but men feel women with shorter hair are more FIESTY & OUTGOING… and now men don’t want a powerful wife, women aren’t meant to be powerful in their eyes (Look up psychology of long hair in regards to men).

Lots of men love short hair, but personally I don’t care if they like it or not!

Personality should count and if your married to someone who cares more about your hair than dreams, personality & hobbies… then you just don’t respect yourself enough believe me your more loveable than you know.

If you don’t love yourself, your true self, noone else will ever respect you let alone love you.

http://www.freemeditation.ca/

tell us your secrets..

cheers
olga

He says ” I can change the Hindu patheon with your idol Olga, if you dont cut your hair ever “..

are all Indian men crazy?

cheers
olga

Intrestingly it has been noticed in the period of hard economic times that women tend to keep their hari short, because they have to geneallly get “more masculine”, probably work more, etc….that is an intesting tendency, and I start noticing it again now, when the crises came (the post was written in some better times

I would also say that we may name this or that as a reason…but long hair is simply beautiful!

Back to the topic; Myself, as well as many others prefer women with long hair. I think it is simply instinctive. Nothing evil about that, nothing at all.

Have a great day.

Modern society is rather ill, it is true, but it is much better not only to ciritisize but actually do something about the CHANGE.

In my private and public life I stand to everytrhing that I post here and make people happy with my love and joy. That is what the true “shakti” power for me.

I hope you are also living what you are saying and that this brings about some positive change into your and other people`s life.

>> Because ads hardly try to break rules and make us think deeply. Ads try to provoke us utilizing some pre-conceived notions/ideas to sell a product. Like portraying a ‘divine’ woman, a good mom, a devoted wife, a caring someone etc. etc.

Long hair has been RULED in this male dominated world to BE beautiful. Why this rule? Hope some socio-psychologist might say. But when women are trying to feel and do things as a liberated being…why should we again try to force things upon them like this?

I think in a way it is the same story as with marriage: even if somebody claims the institution to be dying out, there are some – probably subconscious – reasons for it to live forever! Long hair is known to be the first decoration of a woman. There should be definetly some connection with the collective subconsiousness of human race.

>> Yes definitely, collective unconscious has not been bestowed by GOD or nature but had been slowly creeping in the path of civilization. Now, all through the civilization male has the final say. Your answer lie in your sentence where you phrase “first decoration”. The phrase strictly points to an object to be decorated, a room, a car or something like this. This is the model of a WOMAN in collective unconscious. Now, now, plz try something new dear. Dont stay in your damn old limits! Else this civilization, growth, inventions, discoveries hold NO worth. We tend to stay in the year 14,000 BC. cave -men!

In the case of the long hair making any woman look beautiful and indeed attractive the secret is well known but well forgotten.

>> Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder! The secret is to how much puritanic the beholder is! no in the hair or some other stuff. Men need to liberate themselves from a hell lot of pre-conceived notions. And hola! you would find a new new new beauty.

In many cultures it is believed that hair contains the power of a woman. On the surface of it one may see the power of some physical attraction. But the reason is much deeper! Long hair manifests the true power of femininity, the quintessence of a woman. The shakti. Something any man is really looking for. Something a woman really gives to a man.

>> Bull sh**! I should not repeat things that I have written earlier. Just need to remind…what is a belief…its some norm that has been forced upon! POWER in WOMAN! oh! a concept. I am part of a culture from where you have taken this word ’sakti’. You know, this is a term ’sakti’ and ‘power goddess’ is but a trap to trap and hold women from a revolt. I have been a witness to all the hail, power and sakti a women in this culture really enjoys!!!!! They are killed in infancy because its a girl-child, wow sakti!!! women are oppressed, suppressed, tortured for ages in this same culture where this sham ’sakti’ power is so much worshiped. Women are still neither given a little respect. So, plz have a clear note what shakti means. Its a trap to make women numb, powerless, speechless, expressionless and an object of exploitation. Man never look for sakti and power in women. Men take woman as a OBJECT TO POSSESS. And thats why men ‘frame’ lots of lies to possess that object. Praises…worship etc.

In one study published in the research journal Human Nature, researchers found that women who had originally been rated by a test group as being less attractive were rated far more highly when shown with a longer hairstyle. The experimenters concluded that longer hairstyles increase women’s attractiveness in part because longer hair helps to disguise less desirable features. Long hair tends to make the jaw line slimmer and less prominent and draws attention away from undefined cheekbones. Also, as described by many men, long hair also contributes to a more feminine and youthful appearance.

>> Can any one plz as the research centers to research on psychology of male dominance!

Recently I noticed a strong tendency among the western women to grow their hair long. May it somehow manifest the (unconscious) return to the roots? To the true femininity? The longing for understanding the deep and beautiful nature of womanhood? – At least this is what I want to believe…

>> Now we come to examples. Lets take a look at the psychology of WEST first. Valueless, center-less, faithless, devastated, empty vessel which is just like a straw floating fast in the fast flowing water of the muddy flood. A complete ‘wasteland’. This is reflected in the youth first. They turn hippies….is this ‘turning to root!’ They are more attached to drugs! is this ‘turning back to roots!’ They need somehow cling to life, a deeply inherent ‘existential crisis’ is haunting…hence they are clinging to whatever they can. That is not the root. That is just a CHANGE from what IS. Just a random change that makes their life meaningful.

Whether its the multiple intelligences – which I keep updating myself about as I am a kindergarten teacher and this is exactly what we are trying to balance through our curriculum which would be suitable for all learners according to their level and comfort of learning, at the same time being able to have a wide range of learning techniques to choose from and get interested in.

And this topic you are covering just recently in the times of india – they had posted a study about before chopping your hair think about it – it might even have an effect on the sexual performances.

o well – as I mentioned in one of my comments earlier – its great to see people with similar views.

keep up the good work!

@A.G: African women are very beautiful, I agree! I love watching them moving and laughthing, they have so much vitality and natural attraction! As for the hair – surely it has go come altogether. It is rather silly to love someone “for something” – i thing we are attracted by a combination of things, and never by a single quality/feature.

I am Indian and have read old books. In ancient book about sex, authritatively written by one Saint, has given postivie and spiritual importance to Sex.

I shall not go in more details except that outer look of lady partner should be very attractive to ignite desire and attraction towards her.

Here one of the attractive item which every ladies have is her beautiful long hair. Since ancient time, long hair, beautiful eyes, lulpy breast, shape of her body etc are starting point to ignite sex desire in man.

Those countries who have history where ladies were and still keeping long hair religiously or by Custom etc.

Now long hair needs care and its maintainence is time consuming. In days joint family system was existing, so ladies were generally getting time to look after their beauty and including time consuming long hair.

Since many decades, with industrial development in world, many ladies are working and have no time to look after their hair, so they prefer to cut, as per choice and later on it becmes a fashion and routine.

Now cutting hair is common and even many males have accepted ladies with short hair or boy cut hair. but now ladies have turned to cosmetics and making large breast, to improve their look.

Long hair or short hair may not be important, if you look at this point objectively. Only if you look hair subjective, as the item of increasing sex desire then long hair are one of the best

Even to day long hair are arranged in styles for just for outer look, because during intimacy that hair arrangement is totallly disturbed while taking physical pleasure.

So, fashion of keeping long or short hair changes, as time changes and
it depends individually.

Many individuals like her lady with long open hair, freshly washed and without oil, so hair look light and in volume, which makes lady most desireable, while others pay more attention on body of his lady.

So every one shall give opinion in their own way and no conclusion can be certainly arrived at about long or short hair.

I’m very pro-femininity, and I think she’s just jealous because she looks like a man.

Long live women being women!

long live long hair!!!!!!!!!!!!

im a hair expert: any questions email at marissaneal25@yahoo.com

Your comment just breaks my heart. True love and devotion is a sweet and precious thing. I find it very sad indeed to see someone have it cruley held just out of reach. If it’s any consolation to your dear friend, know that men experience the same. We wish her the very best in her search. (Actually I’m secretly just hopeing that she gets to keep her hair. After all, I don’t think russian woman want to watch a western man cry!)

Newfoundlander

http://www.hairstyleswatch.com/sub/long-hairstyles

As mentor RW-Man said before, almost all of the girls on his site have long hair. I have personally noticed that they even pull it in front of their shoulders when they are posing to show off how long and beautiful it is.

SiSD